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Famous December birthday baby names

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If you are expecting a baby in the month of December or celebrate a birthday this month, find out which famous celebrity shares your day. Sir Isaac Newton and Jimmy Buffett were both born on Christmas Day, while star athletes Tiger Woods and LeBron James share a birthday this month! From Brad Pitt to Christina Aguilera, check out the famous December birthday baby names.

'Tis the season for holiday babies! December is full of famous birthdays, including Brad Pitt, Christina Aguilera, Katie Holmes and Steven Spielberg — who all share a birthday on the same day! Korean “Gangnam Style” singer PSY and Olympic star Gabby Douglas celebrate their birthdays on New Year’s Eve. Find out who is born on Christmas Day and more in our list of famous December birthday baby names.

Click on the names to find the meaning and origin of each of them.

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December holidays and horoscopes

Christmas Eve is on December 24 followed by a visit by Santa Claus on December 25. We celebrate a new year full of possibilities on New Year's Eve on December 31.

As far as horoscopes, if you are born between November 22 and December 21 you are a Sagittarius. If you are born between December 22 and January 19 you are a Capricorn.

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The Odd Life of Timothy Green: What makes a family

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The Odd Life of Timothy Green, Disney's touching movie that helps you remember what really matters in life, comes out on DVD Tuesday, December 4, 2012. Read our review of the film that has an adoption theme and watch an exclusive clip.
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The Odd Life of Timothy Green DVD

The Odd Life of Timothy Green, Disney's touching movie that helps you remember what really matters in life, comes out on Blu-ray and DVD Tuesday, December 4, 2012. Read our review of the film that has an adoption theme and watch an exclusive clip.

A movie about family, love and dreams

As an adoptive parent, I'm instinctively leery about movies that center on adoption or even touch on it. So often, Hollywood gets it wrong. It seems that adoption is either over-dramatized and turned into a worst-case scenario or it's romanticized and made out to be far easier and more perfect than real life allows. While The Odd Life of Timothy Green isn't even based in reality — after all, kids don't actually grow in the garden — it won my heart.

The right audience

When I saw previews for The Odd Life of Timothy Green, I was my usual skeptical self. I did a bit of reading online and determined that the subject matter was too mature for my kids. At 4 and 5 years old and having been adopted, I knew that they weren't ready for it. On the other hand, I was very interested in seeing it myself. As a busy mom, that usually means one thing: Wait patiently for the DVD!

SheKnows' movie reviewer said The Odd Life of Timothy Green is "a modern day Pinocchio" that's perfect for "grade school day dreamers" and I'd agree completely. Given the tear factor, I'd suggest it for older elementary school kids, but I might just be on the sensitive side.

When life hands you lemons...

The movie is about Cindy and Jim Green , a small town couple who wants desperately to have a biological baby. In the very beginning of the movie, we learn that their dreams will never become a reality. Naturally, their hearts are broken. As an adoptive parent, I have made many friends who have been through infertility and the pain the Green family portrays is a small snippet of what I've seen some friends experience, but they portray it well.

The old adage about making lemonade when life hands you lemons isn't always the best way to go. Sometimes, when life hands you lemons, you have to grieve your losses. And that's exactly what Cindy and Jim do. They sit down with a bottle of wine, a pencil and several pieces of paper, and their own raw hearts. They spend the evening writing down all of the qualities they imagine their child would have.

When they're done, they put the papers in a box and bury it in the garden, hoping to bring closure to the loss of a dream. However, during a big storm that night, something — or rather, someone— grows in the garden: A boy named Timothy.

Life lessons: What makes a family

The Odd life of Timothy Green

Ten-year-old Timothy, the boy from the garden with leaves that grow on his legs, teaches Cindy and Jim what parenting is all about and what really makes a family. This, of course, is why the way in which my little family was formed made me feel connected to the movie.

I'm an adoption realist — I don't believe it's all sunshine; I believe being an adoptive family means there's another layer of complexity added to the regular old family stuff. I believe biology is important for kids and I respect that mine are unfortunately missing out on something because they weren't able to stay with their first families. But I believe that a huge part of what makes my family work is our love and commitment to one another.

Cue the waterworks

So perhaps this is why I cried so much during The Odd Life of Timothy Green. I saw it as a reminder of the best parts of my family: How much I love my kids and how much I appreciate what they bring to my life every single day.

It might also be why my husband insisted, "Wow, it's dusty in this room! We need to do some deep cleaning because all of this dust is making my eyes water!" when it's not, in fact, dusty in our house!

We're not the only ones. A mom posted a funny video of her two boys to YouTube after they saw The Odd Life of Timothy Green. The two cute kids were bawling their little eyes.

The adoption connection

While the way in which some issues pertaining to adoption didn't seem realistic to me — particularly the process — I absolutely loved the ending. It wasn't a typical Hollywood adoption story, in my opinion. If you're an adoptive parent, you might appreciate that.

I'd definitely recommend The Odd Life of Timothy Green. I'd just make sure to screen it first if you plan on showing it to younger or sensitive kids, probably anyone 9 or younger. No matter what, I'd suggest it to moms looking for a feel-good movie. I think it touches a place in any parent's heart. We love our kids so much and while we give everything to them, the lessons in life that they teach us are immeasurable.

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Angela Kinsey of The Office dishes about co-parenting, the holidays and Citrus Lane

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You know her as Angela Martin, the uptight accountant on the hit TV series The Office. In real life, Angela Kinsey is nothing like the belittling character who seems to only care about her cats. We had the opportunity to talk to the actress about co-parenting her 4-year-old daughter, Isabel, as well as her work as ambassador for Citrus Lane.
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You know her as Angela Martin, the uptight accountant on the hit TV series The Office. In real life, Angela Kinsey is nothing like her belittling character who seems to only care about her cats.

We had the opportunity to talk to the actress about co-parenting her 4-year-old daughter, Isabel, as well as her work as ambassador for Citrus Lane.

Making joint custody work

Angela Kinsey and her husband Warren Lieberstein separated in 2009 and she filed for divorce the following year. Lieberstein happens to be a writer and producer for The Office and the brother of Paul Lieberstein, who plays Toby Flenderson on the show and has been the showrunner for the series since 2005. Since her divorce, like millions of other moms around the world, Kinsey faces the often difficult task of co-parenting.

When a marriage breaks up, no matter what the relationship is between two parents, the adults need to keep their children as the focus.

"I realize every person's situation is different and can be so complicated, so I am wary to give anyone advice," says Kinsey.

"No matter what, we are Isabel's family."

"I find what works for us is the very simple reminder that no matter what, we are Isabel's family. We are her whole world and as long as we keep our relationship about her we can't go wrong. I tell Isabel all the time that families come in all shapes and sizes but what a family is, is love. She is watching her parents treat each other with respect and kindness and as a result she is flourishing. We both see our daughter every day even though we have joint custody. Whether it is for breakfast, for an after-school activity, or for dinner, our daughter has time with each of us every day. I feel very fortunate that my ex and I are able to co-parent the way that we do. Isabel is our everything. We will always have that in common and that common ground is a strong foundation to co-parenting."

Co-parenting and the holidays

After a divorce, the holidays can be a difficult time for many families. However, it's important to keep family holiday traditions alive.

"My ex and I are friends. So co-parenting for us during the holidays is really no different than any other time of the year," explains Kinsey. "We try to pick holiday traditions to do together. We often eat a meal together on Thanksgiving and we always open one gift together on Christmas Eve and have breakfast or lunch on Christmas Day. Those little traditions make all the difference for our daughter."

The importance of support

Parenting isn't easy and none of us can do it alone. When you need a little help — whether that means someone to babysit for you or you just need to vent — it's essential to have a support system of family and friends.

"I think having a good support system is important whether you are a single mom, working mom, stay-at-home mom or dad," says Kinsey. "I know sometimes I need advice or just a friendly ear to let me ramble on about my highs and lows as a parent and I am so very thankful for my friends and family. I have three great sisters, awesome parents and my 95-year-old grandmother who I talk to about everything, and they all bring an interesting and down-to-earth perspective on parenting and life. And here locally in LA I couldn't function without my gal pals. They are my home away from home.“

What's Citrus Lane?

Kinsey is the ambassador for Citrus Lane, the care package service for parents where moms and dads can register their child and get a curated box of best-of products each month shipped to their front door.

"When you become a parent for the first time the list of products out there... can be flat-out overwhelming."

"Citrus Lane is a community of parents helping parents find the best products out there for their kids," explains Kinsey. "When you become a parent for the first time the list of products out there — whether they are strollers, baby lotion or sippy cups — can be flat-out overwhelming. Who makes the best high chair, bouncy seat, developmental toys and on and on? Citrus Lane researches products, finds out what parents out there think and what people are using that works and sends those products monthly to your front door. It is an amazing company with an awesome staff of folks. I am so thrilled to be working with them. As a busy Mamma it is nice to find out about products that I might have otherwise missed out on."

Giving back

Kinsey's long-time charity of choice is Oceana— the world's largest campaign to protect oceans and marine life. Recently, she had an opportunity to create a special edition holiday box from Citrus Lane to benefit the organization.

"I have been talking with Citrus Lane about a preschool age box because that is the stage I am at with my daughter. We spoke about the toys and make-believe games she likes to play and designed a box around that. Tea parties are a big deal at my house so we included a tea set by Green Toys. Green Toys make great durable toys from recycled materials. And although I designed my box with little girls in mind, little boys love playing kitchen too! We also love dolls, so you'll also get an Ivy and Bean paper doll set. It includes two dolls and lots of reusable stickers to change their outfits and it is a great size for holiday travel. And my little gal is very girlie so we are constantly playing dress-up and she loves to get into my lotions, etc. Sparklehearts makes fun lotions that glitter and shine. They are all-natural so you can feel comfortable letting your kids use them.

"Citrus Lane often includes a snack item in their boxes and it is how I have found out about a lot of great toddler treats. I now have to pack a lunch box for my daughter so Plum Organics Shredz are a yummy easy option for a school-time snack. And lastly, Oceana has generously added a little penguin cookie cutter . I grew up in Jakarta, Indonesia and swimming in the ocean was a big part of my childhood and now living in California, we spend a lot of time at the beach and enjoying the beautiful Pacific Ocean. A few years ago I went to a charity event for Oceana and was so impressed with the marine biologists and scientists that are part of this organization. They are working daily to help protect our beautiful oceans so they'll be a safe place to play for our children."

You can buy Kinsey's "Mommy and Me" box at CitrusLane.com .

Up next: Dirty Blondes

The Office is currently airing its ninth and final season. And though we are all sad to see the show end, we are looking forward to the new projects for all the stars. So, what's up next for Kinsey? A new sitcom! "Dirty Blondes is a sitcom based on my friendship with Rachael Harris," explains Kinsey. "We have been friends for 16 years and recently found ourselves starting over in life. Our TV show is about that journey. It is full of honest, raw and hilarious moments when love may be blind but friendship isn't." Look for Kinsey in Dirty Blondes on FOX in 2013.

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Baby names Kate Middleton is sure to love!

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Prince William is gearing up to be a father as the Palace has confirmed that Kate Middleton is pregnant! To help the royal couple out, we have come up with baby boy names and baby girl names that are fit for a future king or queen.

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Prince William is gearing up to be a father as the Palace has confirmed that Kate Middleton is pregnant!

To help the royal couple out, we have come up with baby boy names and baby girl names that are fit for a future king or queen.

Are you ready for a royal baby name bonanza? Kate Middleton has a royal bun in the oven — and this time the rumors are official, as the Palace confirmed her pregnancy in a statement:

“Their Royal Highnesses The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are very pleased to announce that The Duchess of Cambridge is expecting a baby. The Queen, The Duke of Edinburgh, The Prince of Wales, The Duchess of Cornwall and Prince Harry and members of both families are delighted with the news.“

The already thin Duchess is dealing with acute morning sickness, however, and is in the hospital.

“The Duchess was admitted this afternoon to King Edward VII Hospital in Central London with Hyperemesis Gravidarum,“ the statement from the Palace said. “As the pregnancy is in its very early stages, Her Royal Highness is expected to stay in the hospital for several days and will require a period of rest thereafter.“

As she recuperates, we have some great baby name suggestions for her!

Baby names fit for a King

If the royal baby is a boy, the couple may consider naming their son William— or perhaps Charles, after Prince William’s father.

More than likely, however, the couple will use one of the above names as a middle name and choose a different first name for their royal baby. The royal family often opts for traditional names over trendy names, so the following boy names are all great choices:

The couple has embraced popular culture, so perhaps one of these cool preppy names will catch their eye?

Baby names fit for a Queen

If the Duchess is pregnant with a girl, the most obvious choice is to name her Diana, after Prince William’s mother. Diana would also make a lovely middle name, as well.

Elizabeth is another traditional royal family name that they may decide to pass on as a first or middle name. We also love the following classic baby girl names for a future Queen:

We doubt they will name her after Aunt Pippa, however the following girl names are vintage and chic, yet a bit more modern:

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Don't blow off the December birthday

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From the shopping to the school fundraisers to the fun — and not so fun — holiday parties, December can be exhausting. And then there’s your child’s birthday, right smack in the middle of it all. And he’ll understand if you lump it in with the other holiday activities, right? Maybe not…

Birthdays shouldn't be an after-thought

From the shopping to the school fundraisers to the fun — and not so fun — holiday parties, December can be exhausting.

And then there’s your child’s birthday, right smack in the middle of it all. And he’ll understand if you lump it in with the other holiday activities, right? Maybe not…

Holiday schmoliday

You might think that because your baby is, well, only a baby, she won't know any better if you skip it, delay it or phone it in. Because, you'll be buying her great gifts for Christmas and celebrating the holidays anyway, right? Well, while this all may be true, you'll only be setting a precedent that will be hard to reverse as she gets older. You'll get in a bad habit of not singling out your child's special day and once she is old enough to realize, she won't feel she's getting the special treatment she deserves. It's not her fault that she was born when she was born.

Treating your child's birthday like a birthday whether it's December 22 or June 22 is important. And although planning and executing a birthday party in December can be challenging and stressful, we don't really have to tell you it's the best thing to do, now do we?

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Resist the urge to...

Two words will save your sanity

Thinking about your child's birthday before, say, December 1 will alleviate a lot of stress. You know it's coming all year long so here are two words for you: Plan ahead. This will not only help you, but also your guests. Giving friends and family plenty of advanced warning will either ensure that they're able to come or give you enough time to find a date that works best for most people.

Wrap her gifts with Christmas wrap. If you honestly feel you can't manage to get to the store to buy regular wrapping paper, then stock up earlier in the year so you already have it on hand. But wrapping your child's presents in paper covered in Santa Claus' face is a no-no.

Pick a theme that is in any way affiliated with reindeer, Santa or the North Pole. It's going to be tempting to use decorations you already have. After all, the Christmas tree makes a beautiful backdrop and candy canes are delicious no matter what the occasion, but you absolutely must keep the birthday and the holiday separate. So this means no snowmen cookies for dessert!

Skip the celebration altogether. You should absolutely have a celebration for your child. But having said that, you don't have to "go big." In fact, keeping it small will make your life a lot easier. Remember, it is the thought that counts. PS: The big birthday party is so last year!

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But... if you absolutely can't pull it off

Celebrate your child's half birthday instead. If your child was born on Christmas Day or within a day or two of it, you might find it better to put some distance between the holiday and the birthday. This can be a half birthday or the same day but a different month. And once your child is old enough, it might be her asking for this. But no matter what, when and how the birthday is celebrated is a conversation you should have with your child once she's mature enough to discuss it. It is her birthday, after all.

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Your holiday guide to Hanukkah

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During the holiday season, those of the Jewish faith celebrate Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights. Discover why Hanukkah is celebrated over eight days and how each day is marked with candlelight and blessings.

Celebrate the Festival of Lights

During the holiday season, those of the Jewish faith celebrate Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights.

Discover why Hanukkah is celebrated over eight days and how each day is marked with candlelight and blessings.

If your only exposure to Hanukkah, also spelled Chanukah, is comedian Adam Sandler’s famous holiday song, read on. Hanukkah is one of many Jewish holidays. Hanukkah falls in December and has become a highly anticipated Jewish holiday, particularly for children. Learn more about Hanukkah in our holiday guide.

The history of Hanukkah

Also called the Festival of Lights, Hanukkah commemorates the rededication of a Jewish temple that had been taken over by the Greeks. During a time of war in second century B.C., the Jews led the Maccabean Revolt and reclaimed the temple. The beginning of Hanukkah marks the day the Jewish army removed the Greek statues and relics from the temple. According to the stories of this time, a miracle occurred when the Jewish forces lit a small amount of oil for the temple’s menorah. Instead of burning briefly, the oil burned for eight nights. This is why Hanukkah is celebrated for eight nights.

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Lighting the menorah

Unlike other Jewish holidays that involve restrictions and special holiday services, Hanukkah’s sole observance is the lighting of the menorah. The other traditions associated with Hanukkah, such as games and songs, are not strict religious observances. A menorah is a candelabra with nine branches or nine receptacles for candles or oil. Each night, a smaller candle is used to light the other eight candles, from right to left. As the family lights each candle together, blessings are recited. Candles are left burning for a short period of time in the evening.

Eight days of presents

There’s no religious significance to gift giving during Hanukkah, but it has become a major tradition with the holiday. It’s understood that the relative closeness to Christmas and the commercialization of the Christmas season have encouraged Hanukkah celebrations to involve presents. It’s common for parents to give their children small gifts on each day of Hanukkah. Individual families may celebrate differently according to family tradition. Some families observe the tradition of giving money to children after the menorah is lit, while encouraging the children to donate a portion of that money to charity.

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Hanukkah food and treats

Fried foods are cooked and eaten during Hanukkah as a symbol of the miracle of burning oil in the rededicated temple. Sufganiyot, a fried jelly doughnut, is a traditional Hanukkah food. They may be stuffed with chocolate or vanilla cream, or with various flavored jams and jellies. More widely known, latkes are also a traditional Hanukkah food. Latkes are fried potato pancakes that may be served with sweet or savory toppings. In some families, children are given chocolate candy coins instead of money.

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Hanukkah traditions for the whole family

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As you celebrate the Festival of Lights, find ways to involve the whole family, young and old. From crafts for kids to traditional recipe sharing, make this a Hanukkah to remember.

Hanukkah is a time to celebrate tradition and triumph. This year, gather your entire family together and help young children participate in the traditions of the Festival of Lights.

Make crafts with your children

Crafts are a great way to help kids learn by doing. When kids are still young enough to enjoy the magic of finger paint and popsicle sticks, help them create art to decorate your home for Hanukkah. Make homemade holiday cards to send to your friends and family. Use magazines and paper to make collages that represent your family. If your children are too young for a real menorah, create one using craft materials such as wrapping toilet paper rolls with colored tissue paper to create candles.

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Encourage kids to light a children’s menorah

"The holidays bring about feelings of nostalgia and fond memories... "

Don’t worry if you’re not very crafty. There are hundreds of children’s menorahs available in stores and online. Help your child choose a children’s menorah that speaks to her personality. Some are battery operated while others hold traditional candles. If your child is older and will be helping the family light the main menorah, carefully guide her through the blessings and candle lighting. If you use a special candle holder between holidays, let your children retrieve the unlit candles when it’s time to set up the menorah. If you have older kids who are getting ready to leave for school or move out, give them their own menorah to begin their new traditions.

Ask grandparents to share stories

Involve grandparents and senior relatives in your Hanukkah celebrations. As you share quiet time and blessings together, ask grandparents to tell stories of former Hanukkah holidays. Prepare children ahead of time by asking them to have a handful of questions ready. The holidays bring about feelings of nostalgia and fond memories, making it the perfect time to encourage older loved ones to share stories of the past. To involve your kids, ask them to write down some of the stories and facts they learned from grandparents and aunts and uncles.

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Cook traditional Hanukkah food as a family

Do you or your parents have family recipes? Now is the time to share them with your children. Use cooking as a chance to share and talk about tradition. As you cook traditional foods like latke this Hanukkah, talk about the miracle of the oil in the temple that burned for eight nights. Discuss your faith as you cook, leading the conversation with questions about what Hanukkah means to each family member. Get everyone involved, from setting the table to cooking to cleaning up afterwards. Make meal preparation a true team effort.

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Prenatal and diagnostic testing: What to know before you test

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For first-time moms or women who have high-risk pregnancies, the idea of prenatal testing can be scary and overwhelming. Dr. Myra Wick of the Mayo Clinic shares some of the most important questions couples should ask.

For first-time moms or women who have high-risk pregnancies, the idea of prenatal testing can be scary and overwhelming. Dr. Myra Wick of the Mayo Clinic shares some of the most important questions couples should ask.

Preparing for anything

When I discovered I was expecting my son, I was 36 and had several previous back surgeries. I was more concerned about whether pregnancy was going to cause my spine to implode than I was that my baby might not be healthy.

The issue of prenatal screening seemed pointless. My husband and I were ecstatic to welcome our child and while we, like every expectant parent, prayed for a healthy baby, we knew if something was “wrong,” it wouldn’t matter. Our baby was our baby.

First-trimester screening

It’s interesting to note that the ultrasound screenings I underwent in the first trimester of my pregnancy showed nothing abnormal.

First-trimester screening, which includes an ultrasound to examine the nuchal translucency and the level of two markers in the mother’s blood, has a detection rate for Down syndrome of approximately 85 percent, with a 5 percent false positive rate.

In addition, according to Dr. Myra Wick of the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, who is board-certified in both OB-GYN and Medical Genetics, “Advanced level ultrasound in the second trimester will detect approximately 50 percent of cases of Down syndrome. Patients most commonly move forward for additional reassurance.”

It wasn’t until we received the results from blood screening that we became concerned.

According to the Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy, first trimester screening test results are “considered positive for Down syndrome if the risk is 1 in 230 or greater.”

Blissful ignorance?

I have to admit, I had a nagging sense early on that something was wrong, even before we received the results of the first screening test, which shared the likely chances that our baby would have a genetic disorder.

Hearing those numbers for the first time wasn’t as scary as they might be now, simply because I didn’t know what a high-risk ratio sounded like. Our genetic counselor told us our unborn child had a one in 13 chance of having something called Trisomy 18.

To me, a former journalist who avoids math like cats avoid water, well, heck, that wasn’t so bad, right? I mean, if the baby’s chances were one in 13, that meant there were 12 other shots that things would be just fine. Right?

I was uneducated on the risks of genetic conditions, and I realize now that ignorance wasn’t bliss but rather a much more moderated panic.

Our baby’s risk of having Down syndrome was in the single digits . Basic research told us that Trisomy 18 came with a high risk of intrauterine death, or death the within the first year of life. People with Trisomy 21 had a life expectancy of 60 years.

I prayed for Down syndrome.

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Weighing risk vs. 'yes or no' answers

Ultrasound FAQs

Dr. Wick recommends asking these questions after a patient undergoes an ultrasound:

  • Are there anomalies on the ultrasound?
  • If anomalies exist, will the fetus be able to survive them in the long term?
  • If the fetus is diagnosed with a non-life-threatening disorder but anomalies exist , ask to meet with the neonatologist and appropriate specialists .

The Mayo Clinic also offers an overview of common prenatal tests.

“Risk assessment is a difficult concept for many patients,” Dr. Wick says. “We all have a different perception of what is considered ‘high risk,’ and we all want a definitive yes-or-no answer, not a risk!

“Some patients consider 1/200 to be unacceptably high, and will proceed with testing. I have also had patients with a much higher risk, 1/25, decide that this is not high enough to proceed with additional testing,” Dr. Wick continues.

“The decision to proceed or not may be based on how the patient/couple will manage the pregnancy,” Dr. Wick says. “If termination is a consideration, these couples will usually proceed with invasive testing so that further management decisions can be made.

“If couples are not considering termination, then it may be reasonable to weigh the risks of the procedure versus the risk that the pregnancy is affected.”

Plan of delivery

Every delivery is different, and each couple must approach delivery with a plan that works for them.

“If the fetus has a lethal condition, it may also be useful to meet with the neonatologist to discuss management at delivery,” Dr. Wick advises. Depending on the baby’s condition, a couple may choose “comfort care” versus multiple interventions.

"You should also discuss plan of delivery with your provider,” Dr. Wick says. “These are obviously very sensitive issues.”

Hearing the results

At the beginning of our pregnancy, my husband and I agreed it didn’t matter what might be different about our child, we looked forward to meeting him or her and starting our family.

When the first screening results came back, the numbers were like an unexpected flare shooting into the sky. We talked at great length about the pros and cons of going further and having diagnostic testing. It was riskier to the baby because diagnostic tests are invasive, whereas the screening I’d undergone to that point was from simple blood tests.

Together, we agreed we wanted to know what was reasonable to find out. We wanted to be prepared, and, as we learned more about Trisomy 18 and Trisomy 21, we realized either scenario came with increased risks of heart defects. We decided we had to know more.

Diagnostic testing

At 18 weeks, I underwent an amniocentesis, a diagnostic test that’s often used to follow up on an abnormal screening test. Diagnostic tests can better confirm genetic conditions.

Dr. Wick explains, “Diagnostic testing is also referred to as invasive testing. This includes chorionic villus sampling and amniocentesis .

“CVS is typically performed between 11 and 14 weeks. It involves taking a small sample of the placenta . This may be done with a needle through the abdomen or by passing a small catheter through the cervix . CVS is done under ultrasound guidance. The quoted risk of pregnancy loss is approximately 1 percent.

“Amniocentesis typically is done at or after 15 weeks and is also usually done under ultrasound guidance," Dr. Wick continues. "Risk of loss is generally quoted as 0.5 percent. Both CVS and amnio obtain fetal tissue, which can be used for chromosome analysis or other genetic testing.”

For us, prenatal testing also helped discover and track our son’s evolving hydrops condition. Hydrops is two or more of the following 1) ascites [fluid collection in the abdomen], 2) pleural effusion [fluid around the lungs] 3) pericardial effusion [fluid around the heart], 4) skin edema [e.g., fluid collection in the extremities, similar to what many women experience late pregnancy but usually more pronounced], 5) polyhydramnios [abnormally increased amniotic fluid].

“Hydrops can be associated with several conditions, including Down syndrome,” Dr. Wick explains, “but it generally carries a poor prognosis.”

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Discovering a potentially lethal condition

“Prenatal testing can be a very important and emotional decision for parents,” Dr. Wick says. “If the infant has a lethal condition, discussion should include monitoring during labor .

Dr. Wick advises couples to plan ahead for either scenario, whether the child is delivered in good health or something goes wrong and the child does not survive delivery.

Acknowledging how difficult it will be to face these questions, Dr. Wick encourages couples to plan ahead and ask:

  • Will there be surgical interventions for a lethal condition or comfort care? “If you are at a small community hospital, your care provider may be more comfortable sending you to a tertiary center where there is more likely to be a ‘bereavement team’ and providers who have special training in the care of these families,” Dr. Wick says.
  • If the infant has problems and there will be interventions will there be specialists at the delivery ?
  • Antenatal testing , typically with ultrasound and/or monitoring of the infant’s heart rate tracing, can be used to assess for developments such as hydrops or abnormal blood flow in the infant. If the testing is abnormal, and the infant does not have a lethal condition then testing may help the care team make decisions about early delivery.

Learning to breathe smoothly

In our case, our son looked perfectly healthy via ultrasound on a Friday, and by Monday morning had quite a bit of fluid building in his left lung cavity. Our physicians consulted with other physicians in the Northeast and decided we should continue to monitor the situation.

By the following Friday, the fluid had increased, and I was on my way to the hospital. Before Charlie was born at 33 weeks, weighing 4 pounds, 14 ounces, maternal and fetal physicians removed most of the fluid in his lung cavity, in utero.

The rollercoaster had many curves and many dips

As I lay staring at one spot on the ceiling and trying to breathe smoothly and evenly, a physician inserted a needle into my abdomen, then into my uterus and into Charlie’s left lung cavity to withdraw fluid.

Twice, my husband watched as a nurse who had become a trusted friend helped guide each physician’s painstaking precision using ultrasound technology.

Those moments were perhaps the most vulnerable I will ever feel as a parent — or I certainly hope so. I was putting my child’s life in doctors’ hands, trusting their skill and expertise.

Trusting your medical team

When Charlie was born, he had a chest tube for one week before the fluid subsided and his lungs remained clear. I’ll never forget the incredible work, patience and compassion of the physicians who monitored Charlie, modified his treatment and ensured he could come home with us one month after he was born.

The rollercoaster had many curves and many dips, but throughout our journey, we had complete confidence in our physician, Dr. David C. Shaver, at Presbyterian Maternal and Fetal Medicine in Charlotte, North Carolina.

He never frightened us, and he never sugarcoated the truth. He asked for our thoughts, and respectfully and delicately shared his professional opinion when we hesitated.

The best illustration of his dedicated demeanor came one afternoon, midway through the pregnancy, when Charlie’s hydrops had resolved almost entirely, which we greeted with wary, nervous joy.

Dr. Shaver sat for what seemed like days, sliding the ultrasound device over my belly, pushing and prodding, then stopping and staring at the computer screens without expression. My husband and I exchanged nervous glances several times, as the exam went on and on.

Becky, our by-now beloved nurse, returned to the exam room and, upon seeing Dr. Shaver still studying the screen, said, “Oh, I didn’t know you were still looking! Everything OK?”

Dr. Shaver nodded. He never looked up from the screen. “Everything looks great,” he said calmly. “I’m just… being paranoid, I guess.”

My husband and I looked at each other, relief escaping audibly from our lips. “Dr. Shaver, you can watch for a week if you want,” I said.

His was the last hand I shook nearly 18 months later, as I prepared to have a scheduled C-section with our second child, our daughter. Parenthood is scary, and the moments leading up to childbirth are a whirlwind. Trusting your physician implicitly makes all the difference.

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Back to basics

Before undergoing any testing, Dr. Wick says one of the most important questions for a couple to address head-on is how they will use test results. “Will the results change management of the pregnancy ? Does the couple agree on how they will follow up an abnormal test result?”

As Dr. Wick points out, “Some couples have never discussed their thoughts on termination — not all partners agree on this!”

Everyone reacts differently

While my husband and I agreed early on that termination was not an option, we each had very different reactions to prenatal testing and the results we received.

We are in love with our little boy

After watching me undergo the amnio procedure, my husband returned to work and promptly Googled support groups for parents of children with Down syndrome. We hadn’t gotten a diagnosis yet, but he was already reaching out.

As fate would have it, a local DADS Group was meeting that very night in a neighboring town, and Jeremy attended. There, he met families who will be part of our lives forever. He found hope and positivity, which was exactly what he needed.

Alternately, I spent months unable to really speak with anyone about the diagnosis for a variety of reasons, mostly because of overwhelming guilt. Fate again intervened when my husband scheduled dinner with two couples from the DADS Group on what turned out to be the night before we learned Charlie’s hydrops had returned.

The next afternoon, I was admitted to the hospital, and three days later, we welcomed our beautiful son.

Only one regret — wasted time

Ours is an ongoing story and, without question, one of the best love stories I’ve ever known. We are in love with our little boy, and everyone who gets to know him has come to understand what an overwhelmingly positive difference he has made in our lives.

I have no regrets about having the prenatal testing done; for better or worse, my husband and I came to terms with the diagnosis at our own pace. Any remaining worry slipped away once we looked at our son and touched his silky skin.

What I do regret is the tremendous amount of time I wasted worrying about what I realize now were baseless concerns. Knowing and loving Charlie outweighs any challenge we may face together.

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Share the spirit of Hanukkah

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During Hanukkah, take time to reflect on family, love and the spirit of giving. Discover ways to share the blessing of the holiday season with those you hold dear.

During Hanukkah, take time to reflect on family, love and the spirit of giving. Discover ways to share the blessing of the holiday season with those you hold dear.

Simple ways to
share the love

This December, share the spirit of Hanukkah with your friends and family. Hanukkah traditions embrace a mix of faith and love, bringing families together. As you celebrate the Hanukkah holiday, find ways to share the spirit of the season.

Encourage reflection and peace

After lighting the menorah, it’s customary for a family to spend quiet time sharing each other’s company by candlelight. This time may be spent singing or spent quietly reflecting. It’s not a time for work or distractions. Quiet time spent as a family is something you can share with friends and family as a suggestion to calm the hectic pace of the holiday season. It’s a tradition unique to Hanukkah and one that can be embraced year-round. Ask your kids to quietly reflect on the blessings of the year. Take time to share your reflections later in the evenings.

Teach your kids to give

Whether you share gelt with your children in the form of real money or chocolate coins, use this tradition as a time to talk about the spirit of giving. Help your kids choose toys, books and clothes to donate to charity. Take your children shopping to find a gift for a local toy drive. Encourage your children to spend a portion of their allowances or holiday money on charities of their choice. If your family exchanges Hanukkah gifts, teach your children to appreciate the act of giving as much as the joy of getting a gift.

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Cook together

As you prepare traditional Hanukkah foods, get your children involved in the preparations. If your children don’t usually cook, this is a perfect opportunity to acquaint them with the kitchen. Just be especially cautious with young children around hot oil. When you spend time together cooking, make sure everyone in the family totally unplugs. Put phones away, turn off the TV and limit media to festive music. Take this time to learn how to work together as a team, preparing delicious traditional Hanukkah treats.

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Discuss your heritage

Hanukkah is the perfect time to share stories of loved ones who are elderly or who have passed. When you share tales of your older relatives, focus on good times such as previous Hanukkah celebrations. Tell the story of a particular memory or share stories of your loved ones' faith and dedication. Kids sometimes lose sight of the fact that parents were once children. Share stories of your own childhood as you guide your kids through traditions. What do you do the same? What do you do differently?

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Easy Christmas crafts for kids

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With some help from Mom and Dad, your little one will enjoy making and displaying these simple Christmas crafts.

Pinecone Christmas tree ornaments

Pinecones can be found at most crafting stores or, if you're lucky, in your own backyard! Your kids will love this Christmas craft that produces their very own ornaments for the tree this year.

Materials:

  • pinecones
  • yarn
  • craft glue
  • water
  • 2 shallow bowls
  • glitter

Directions:

  1. Fill one shallow bowl with a mixture of craft glue and water .
  2. Mix the glue and water together.
  3. Fill the second shallow bowl with a thin layer of glitter.
  4. Dip the ends of the pinecone into the glue mixture.
  5. Hold the pinecone over the bowl containing the glitter and sprinkle glitter over the wet glue.
  6. Let dry.
  7. Tie a piece of yarn near the top of the pinecone in a loop.

Tip: Pinecone Christmas tree ornaments make great gifts for teachers and family members.

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Christmas reindeer pot

This Christmas reindeer pot is an easy craft that your kids can make in minutes. The pot is a cute way to store candy canes or other Christmas treats, and can even be a creative package for a small gift.

Materials:

  • terracotta pot
  • 2 large googly eyes
  • 4 brown pipe cleaners
  • red pom pom
  • craft glue
  • scissors

Directions:

  1. Start by using the craft glue to glue the eyes to the terracotta pot.
  2. Next, glue the red pom pom to the pot beneath the eyes to form the reindeer's nose.
  3. Cut one of the pipe cleaners in half. Wrap the two short pieces of pipe cleaner around a long piece of pipe cleaner to form the antlers. Repeat for the second set of antlers.
  4. Glue the antlers to the inside of the pot, one on each side.

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Beaded Christmas garland

This easy Christmas craft improves your child's fine motor skills while creating something enjoyable for your Christmas tree or home.

Materials:

shoelaces
beads

Directions:

  1. Tie a large knot at one end of a shoelace.
  2. Thread beads onto the shoelace.
  3. Repeat the first two steps as many times as you want.
  4. Tie all the shoelaces together to form one long garland.
  5. Hang your garland on your tree, above the fireplace or above a doorway.

3-D snowman

This Christmas craft can get a little messy, but children love playing with cotton balls and glue, so sit back and enjoy as your child's eyes light up — and then light up again at the sight of his or her finished craft project.

Materials:

  • white cardstock paper
  • black cardstock paper
  • orange cardstock paper
  • cotton balls or white pom pom craft balls
  • craft glue
  • water
  • shallow bowl
  • popsicle stick or hard paintbrush

Directions:

  1. Cut three circles from the white paper — small, medium and large.
  2. Cut one square, one thin/long rectangle and five tiny circles from the black paper.
  3. Cut one triangle from the orange paper.
  4. Fill the shallow bowl with a mixture of craft glue and water .
  5. Glue the three white circles together to create the snowman's body.
  6. Glue the black, thin large rectangle and black square together to make the top hat.
  7. Glue the top hat to the top of the snowman's head.
  8. Dip the popsicle stick in the glue and coat the white circles with the glue mixture.
  9. Place the cotton balls or pom poms all over the snowman's body.
  10. Glue the tiny black circles on the snowman's face as eyes.
  11. Glue the orange triangle on the snowman's face as a nose.
  12. Glue the remaining tiny black circles on the snowman's body.

Foam Christmas ornaments

Materials:

  • red and green craft foam
  • decorative foam stickers
  • scissors
  • hole punch
  • ribbon

Directions:

  1. Cut out a large ornament shape from your craft foam.
  2. Have your child stick foam stickers on to the craft foam to decorate the ornament.
  3. Use your hole punch to create a hole in the top of the ornament.
  4. Cut a 4-inch piece of ribbon, thread it through the hole and tie a knot to create the hanger.

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Must-have gadgets for high-tech kids

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Keeping your kids — even the young ones — connected in a high-tech world means giving them the tools they need. Find out what you need to tech your child.

Tabeo 7-inch Tablet

“A tablet is 100 gifts wrapped up in one,” says Nicole Fonovich, co-author of the Luca Lashes educational apps. "Just like television had brought the family together in the 50's, or even radio prior to that, family tablet time can be a wonderful bonding and learning opportunity for families," says .

The Tabeo is the tablet for kids. Featuring a 7-inch screen and Wi-Fi connection, it's pre-loaded with dozens of kid-friendly apps.

The Tabeo is big on protection. A soft bumper prevents damage from accidental drops and Internet safety controls enable parents to filter out the bad stuff. Now maybe your child will let you have yours back...

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Nintendo Wii U GamePad

Nintendo Wii U GamePad is a new way to Wii. A 6.2” LCD touch screen brings the game right to your fingertips. The GamePad is a controller, monitor, camera, sound system and Web navigator in one — and you can play not just those in the same room but friends around the world in the new Miiverse gaming community. You can even use the GamePad to control your TV and DVR and surf the Web on your home TV screen.

The basic package includes an 8GB Wii U system, GamePad controller with stylus, sensor bar, console AC adapter, GamePad AC adapter and HDMI cable in a trendy compact design.

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Keeping up with the Joneses

“Kids don’t even see the difference between digital and non digital gifts. It’s all one big world to them, but the best digital gifts are the ones that allow them to create and explore," says Robin Raskin, founder of Living in Digital Times.

Each year, the must-have gifts get more complicated and more expensive. How can parents avoid going broke while trying to keep the kids up-to-date with ever-changing technology?

“The best way to prevent having to continually replace your children’s gadgets is to purchase quality, durable items,” says Andrew Schrage, co-owner of Money Crashers Personal Finance. As examples, Schrage recommends investing in more expensive but longer-lasting features, such as laptops with spill-resistant keyboards or shock-resistant cell phones.

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Vtech Kidizoom Twist Camera

The Vtech Kidizoom Twist Camera is the perfect starter camera for kids as young as 3 years old. Vtech improved on its already popular camera series with fantastic upgrades: Twist the camera lens for self-portraits, set the timer for group photos, shoot videos with audio and edit photos and send them to your printer and to friends.

This is a real camera that's made for kids. It features 2.0 megapixels, 4x digital zoom, 256 MB internal memory and SD card slot, PC/Mac compatibility and preloaded games.

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Firefly GlowPhone

The Firefly GlowPhone is geared for ages 8 to 12. In addition to being able to call Mom and Dad, children can dial from the 50-entry phone book, choose from preloaded MIDI ringtones and JPEG wallpapers, read text messages and play basic games.

Since there’s no keypad, your child can call only those numbers that are programmed. The GlowPhone features one-way text messaging: Your child can receive but not send texts. Available in pink and black, this kid-friendly phone even has a flashlight.

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Quality matters

Oftentimes, our kids know more about the devices they want than we do, so it’s important to do our homework before investing in a new gadget. “Unfortunately, when shopping for tech gifts for kids, price cannot be the only determining factor,” cautions Schrage. “Consider paying a little extra for a high-quality, durable item – it may be worth the extra investment.”

Schrage encourages parents to shop eBay and Amazon to find deals at reasonable prices. . “Also, consider signing up for email updates from the website FatWallet, which advertises both online and in retail stores the best deals for tech gadgets.”

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Celebrating Christmas, Hanukkah or both?

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In the last decade, interfaith couples have grown substantially in number, which means more families are celebrating the accompanying holidays. For example, many Jewish-Christian families now celebrate both Christmas and Hanukkah. An interfaith couple may feel pressure to choose which traditions will be passed down a generation and finding the right balance is key to ensuring a happier holiday season.

In the last decade, interfaith couples have grown substantially in number, which means more families are celebrating the accompanying holidays. For example, many Jewish-Christian families now celebrate both Christmas and Hanukkah.

Interfaith families finding balance

An interfaith couple may feel pressure to choose which traditions will be passed down a generation and finding the right balance is key to ensuring a happier holiday season.


Low and behold, December is upon us and that means egg nog lattes, ice skating and retail sales galore. It's also the big month for holidays: Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, just to name a few. These rituals say a lot about our country — we're a diverse lot, that's for sure. But our traditions are starting to merge together and that's reflected in the way we celebrate holidays. Though interfaith families were rare historically, they are now interwoven into the fabric of our culture. There is no cookie cutter for the American family, so for all intents and purposes we'll focus on the Jewish-Christian example.

The numbers

There are now more than 1 million interfaith couples according to the Jewish Outreach Institute. The community in which an interfaith couple lives may reflect a larger pattern of religion. For example, in Boston, almost 60 percent of children from interfaith couples are raised Jewish, according to the website InterfaithFamily.com. Similarly, about 62 percent of children of interfaith marriages are raised Jewish in Baltimore. But in Denver, only 18 percent are being raised Jewish.

Celebrating the holiday

Interfaith couples can face a difficult situation if one partner feels stronger about his or her religion and passionate about passing down holiday rituals to the children. If you haven't heard of the "December Dilemma," well this is it: Christmas or Hanukkah? Experts advise couples to remain open to new ideas and communicate. The tension can grow if the eight days of Hanukkah overlap with Christmas, so be open to compromising.

Many interfaith families have solved the dilemma by celebrating both holidays or even having one celebration colloquially referred to as Chrismukkah.

California mom Kimberly said her Jewish-Catholic family hosts one party for both holidays.

"We do celebrate both Jewish and Christian holidays, but really from a tradition standpoint," she said. "We celebrate Christmas with a tree and Santa... and we celebrate Hannukah as a cultural tradition. We have a big Chrismukkah party every year, which is a fun way to get everyone together and eat good holiday foods, latkes and peppermint brownies."

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Christmas treats kids can make on their own

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Get ready for the holidays with this festive collection of Christmas treats for kids. Not only will the kids enjoy noshing on these holiday favorites, but older kids can make these recipes all on their own!
Trio of Christmas treats

Get ready for the holidays with this festive collection of Christmas treats for kids. Not only will the kids enjoy noshing on these holiday favorites, but older kids can make these recipes all on their own!

Kids Christmas recipes

Do your kids love to get busy in the kitchen? These simple holiday recipes are perfect for kids who like to cook and bake. So get into the holiday spirit and let your little chefs try making some of these tasty Christmas treats.

Chocolate Christmas spoons

Chocolate peppermint Christmas spoons

What you need:

  • 1 cup of peppermint candies
  • 1 cup of chocolate chips
  • Plastic spoons
  • Holiday ribbons

Directions:

Begin by crushing 1 cup of peppermint candies with a rolling pin. Set aside. Place 1 cup of chocolate chips into the microwave for 1 minute. Stir gently. If the chocolate does not melt thoroughly, return to the microwave for 30 seconds at a time until chocolate can be stirred smooth.

Dip colorful plastic spoons into the chocolate to coat the top of the spoon. Immediately dip each chocolate-coated spoon into the crushed peppermint candy, covering the bottom half of the spoon only. Set on baking sheet covered with wax paper to cool. Repeat until the chocolate and peppermints are gone.

Tie a colorful Christmas ribbon on the handle of each spoon. Serve the Chocolate Christmas Spoons at a holiday brunch as stir sticks for hot cocoa or coffee . Enjoy!

Reindeer poop

Reindeer poop Christmas treats

What you need:

  • 1/2 cup butter
  • 2 cups sugar
  • 1/2 cup milk
  • 3 teaspoons cocoa
  • 1/2 cup peanut butter
  • 3 cups non-instant oats
  • 1/2 cup chopped pecans

Directions:

Adults may not be crazy about this recipe, but your kids are going to love it! In a microwave-safe dish, blend 1/2 cup butter, 2 cups sugar, 1/2 cup milk, 3 teaspoons cocoa and 1/2 cup peanut butter. Heat the mixture for 3 minutes. Stir well. If the mixture is not smooth, heat for another 30 seconds and stir again.

Next, add in 3 cups non-instant oats and 1/2 cup chopped pecans — the mixture will be lumpy. Now comes the fun part! Grab a spoon and collect the "reindeer poop." Drop lumps of poop onto a baking sheet lined with wax paper. Let cool for 1 hour.

Serve to all your friends and have a good Christmas laugh together.

Candy cane cookie twists

Candy cane cookies Christmas treats

Helpful hint Compensate for the extra liquid that the food dye creates by adding extra flour.

What you need:

  • Sugar cookie dough
  • Red food dye
  • Green food dye

Directions:

Turn your own recipe for sugar cookies into a magical Christmas treat.

Simply divide the dough in thirds. Add 1/2 teaspoon red food coloring to 1/3 of the dough and knead until the color is smooth. Repeat the procedure by adding 1/2 teaspoon of green food coloring to a second portion of the dough. Leave the last 1/3 portion of dough as is. Refrigerate all three portions of the dough for 1 hour until firm.

Taking 1-inch scoops of dough, roll out evenly to make 8-inch ropes. Twist opposing-color ropes together to make candy cane ropes and pinch the ends. Curl each twisted rope into a candy cane shape and bake at 350 degrees F. for 10 minutes. Cool and serve with a glass of cold milk. Mmmmmm… It's beginning to feel a lot like Christmas!

quick tip

These yummy treats also make great holiday presents for family and friends. Grab some colorful tins and get your Christmas shopping done early!

Images courtesy of Kimberlee Bradford

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Baby names inspired by Christmas movies

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Whether you are expecting a baby in December or just love this festive time of the year, we have rounded up some truly great baby names from some of our favorite Christmas movies. From Virginia to Violet, Zuzu to Ralphie check out baby boy and baby girl names inspired by Christmas movies.

We have picked baby names from the classic movies, such as White Christmas, as well as more modern movies, including National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation and Elf, that will surely get you in the Christmas spirit.

A Charlie Brown Christmas

A Charlie Brown Christmas debuted in 1965 and has continued to delight fans every Christmas. Although we are not suggesting you name your child Snoopy — although it does make a cute nickname or a great name for a dog… or rapper , check out these great names from this classic movie:

It’s a Wonderful Life

It’s a Wonderful Life is an inspirational holiday movie that was released in 1946 and never fails to get you in the Christmas spirit. You are sure to love some of these old-fashioned, yet classic, names:

National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation

Chevy Chase ushered in a Christmas classic with the hilarious holiday happenings of the Griswold family in National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation. If you know every line in the movie like I do, you are sure to recognize some of these great All-American names:

White Christmas

Bing Crosby and Rosemary Clooney made magic in this Christmas classic, which was first released in 1954. These retro baby names are full of charm!

Miracle on 34th Street

This heartwarming tale is full of holiday spirit — and full of great baby names as well! Discover the miracle of Christmas with these names from Miracle on 34th Street.

Christmas baby names

There are so many great Christmas movies we couldn't narrow it down! Here are more baby girl names and baby boy names from some of our favorite Christmas movies:

  • Ebenezer: A Christmas Carol
  • Virginia: Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus
  • Cindy Lou: How the Grinch Stole Christmas
  • Ralphie: A Christmas Story
  • Bernard: The Santa Clause
  • Kevin: Home Alone

Tell us

What are some of your favorite baby names from Christmas movies?

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Celebrity mom cover stories: Catherine Zeta-Jones, Jennifer Hudson, Isla Fisher, Melissa McCarthy

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Which celebrity moms were magazine cover girls in December? Catherine Zeta-Jones looked amazing on the cover of InStyle and talked candidly about her bipolar disorder, as well as having more kids with Michael Douglas. Jennifer Hudson looked gorgeous on Redbook, while Isla Fisher revealed secrets to her amazing figure on Women’s Health UK. Lastly, Melissa McCarthy opened up about keeping a positive body image for her daughters.

Catherine Zeta-Jones on InStyle

Catherine Zeta-Jones

Actress Catherine Zeta-Jones looked gorgeous on the December cover of InStyle magazine in a black Nina Ricci dress. The 43-year-old mom of two opened up about life with her husband Michael Douglas and her bipolar disorder.

On having more kids:

“My daughter asked me if we were going to have more kids. I said no. She said, ‘Well if you do, I hope it’s not a girl. I don’t want to share the jewelry.’ Smart kid.”

On coming out as bipolar:

“It’s not easy. I’m not the kind of person who likes to shout out my personal issues from the rooftops, but with my bipolar becoming public, I hope fellow sufferers will know it’s completely controllable. I hope I can help remove any stigma attached to it, and that those who don’t have it under control will seek help with all that is available to treat it.”

On how exercising helps her mentality:

“I don’t have a trainer. Crazy, right? But I don’t need anyone to motivate me. I love exercise, even things like the elliptical and stretching. It really helps my mood too, which, with the bipolar thing, is important. I’m obsessed with hula-hooping. I do it for 20 minutes a day. I don’t use the old-fashioned hollow plastic kind we had when we were kids, but I discovered a new one at Danskin that’s smaller and weighted.”

On her dream closet:

“I’m building a closet in my house now, and it’s like a dream. Racks on each side, a whole boudoir. I sit in there and watch CNN. Michael says one day I’m going to go in and never come out!”

Next up: Jennifer Hudson on dropping more pounds on Redbook

Photographed for InStyle by Horst Diekgerdes

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Jennifer Hudson on Redbook

Jennifer Hudson

Jennifer Hudson is an actress, singer, clothes designer and mom to her 3-year-old son, David. How does she do it all? She appeared on the December cover of Redbook to talk about her 80-pound weight loss and how she keeps the memory alive of her nephew, who was tragically murdered in 2008 by her brother-in-law.

On how she honors her late nephew during the holidays:

“The Julian D. King Toy Drive and Christmas dinner is for kids who are doing well in school — just progressing, they don't necessarily have to have all As or Bs — and we grant whatever their Christmas wish is. With everything that happened with our family, it's hard to get through the holidays. So I was wondering, ‘How can we turn a negative around [and] make it a positive thing?‘ And so we came up with giving back.“

On dropping more pounds:

“I’m at the weight I want to be. But I hear all the time, ‘Don’t lose any more weight, you need to stop.’ People are under the impression that I’m still losing but I’m not.”

On her biggest holiday food temptation:

“My biggest thing is banana pudding, but it's the devil! So no one is allowed to bring it into my house. Because I can't control myself. So why put it in my domain?“

On no longer being plus-sized:

“I’m getting used to my new self more than anything else. I got used to being plus-sized and knowing how to be that, whereas this is like, ‘OK, who am I?’ I keep thinking that I probably need an extra-large or a large and the stylist is like, ‘No, you need a medium or a small.’”

Next up: Melissa McCarthy on raising strong daughters

Photo courtesy of Redbook

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Melissa McCarthy on Good Housekeeping

Melissa McCarthy

We fell in love with Melissa McCarthy in the movie Bridesmaids, and she continues to win us over with her positive outlook on life as she opens up in this month's Good Housekeeping magazine.

On being a positive role model to her daughters :

“Sometimes I wish I were just magically a size 6 and I never had to give [my weight] a single thought. But I am weirdly healthy, so I don't beat myself up about it — it wouldn't help, and I don't want to pass that on to my girls.“

On her new clothes line that is in development:

“I am plus-size, and the things out there are made either for a 16-year-old hooker or an 89-year-old grandmother of the bride — and they're made from the material used for haircutting capes. The fabric has to be better, the cuts have to be better, and I want [the collection to be made] in the United States. I have no problem saying that an item might cost $11 more than the shirt down the street; it will last longer, and it will fit and look better.“

On not dwelling on the numbers on the scale:

“It's something I'm always working on. I don't know why I'm not thinner than I am. I don't really drink soda; I don't have a sweet tooth, and we eat healthfully at home. We're all weird for broccoli and pureed-vegetable soup, which we almost always have a big pot of in the fridge — it's so good!“

On surviving on no sleep:

“Once you have little kids, it's kind of like survival mode for your sleep. They still get up every day at 5 a.m. I'm now down for the count usually by 9 or 9:30 p.m., but it's never continuous sleep. And then sometimes I wake up too early, and I'll go watch a little HGTV; I can look at houses and find it mind-blowingly relaxing. Luckily, I've convinced myself I don't need that much sleep, but I don't know if that's actually true.“

Next up: Isla Fisher on breastfeeding the baby weight away

Photo courtesy of Good Housekeeping

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Isla Fisher on Women's Health UK

Isla Fisher

Isla Fisher is a busy mom of two daughters with Sacha Baron Cohen — and she is a knock-out! The actress looked amazing on the cover of Women's Health UK.

On her early career:

“After Wedding Crashers, I had 12 months where I was auditioning three times a day and I didn’t get a single job. That was a real low point. But with hindsight, those movies turned out to be awful, so I dodged a bullet. If I’d got any of them, I wouldn’t be where I am today. I never had the chutzpah to just come to LA and make it. I didn’t have that confidence. I’m always surprised when I get a job. I never saw this in my horizon.”

On body image, weight and pregnancy:

“I do watch my food. But I’ve been blessed in that I never had any body issues during pregnancy. I loved being able to eat whatever I wanted and the whole experience of giving life. And I never worried about losing the weight afterwards, because breastfeeding burns all the calories up so fast. Breastfeeding — that’s my big slimming secret! That and Spanx. Anytime anyone compliments me on my figure, I’m wearing my Spanx undies.”

Photo courtesy of Women's Health UK

From Jillian Michaels to Gwyneth Paltrow, check out more celebrity mom cover stories here>>


Celeb bump day: Kate Middleton, Jessica Simpson and a naked Marisa Miller

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Happy Wednesday Hump Day — also known to us as Celebrity Baby Bump Day! What a week for pregnant celebrities! Kate Middleton caused a media storm when she announced she was pregnant with a royal baby. The baby bump watch is on for Jessica Simpson, while pregnant Marisa Miller bared all by posing nude for Allure. Pregnant Kristen Bell and Malin Akerman round out our list of cute pregnant celebrities of the week.

Pregnant Kate Middleton baby bump

Kate Middleton

Kate Middleton has a royal bun in the oven! The Duchess is very early in her pregnancy, with a Palace rep saying she had not yet reached the 12-week mark.

Middleton was spotted here on November 28 visiting Peterborough City Hospital — and, even though she is pregnant in this photo, is obviously not showing yet. The slender Duchess will probably not start showing until she is well in her second trimester.

When do most women start to show?>>

Although she looks like she is feeling well here, Middleton is currently hospitalized for acute morning sickness called hyperemesis gravidarum and the father-to-be, Prince William, has been at her side supporting her.

What do you think the royal couple will name the baby? Check out our predictions here>>

Next up: Jessica Simpson's baby bump part two!

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Pregnant Jessica Simpson baby bump

Jessica Simpson

Jessica Simpson was spotted out for the first time since news broke that she is pregnant with her second child — less than a year after giving birth to her daughter Maxwell.

The 33-year-old wore a loose fitting gray sweater paired with a blazer and black leggings.

“It definitely wasn’t planned. But yes, Jessica is pregnant again,” a source told Us Weekly.

It sounds like we should soon be seeing Simpson wearing her own line of maternity clothes that she just launched at Destination Maternity. In the meantime, she probably isn’t quite ready for maternity clothes after losing 70 pounds of baby weight.

Next up: Pregnant Marisa Miller on Allure

Photo credit: Celebrity Baby Scoop – Celebrity Mom and Baby News

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Pregnant and naked Marisa Miller

Marisa Miller

Victoria’s Secret model Marisa Miller bared all as she posed nude in Allure magazine. The 33-year-old is pregnant with her first child with hubby Griffin Guess.

“I always felt, even before I got pregnant, that it’s better to accentuate your curves,” she told the magazine. “A lot of women try to tuck their butt in or kind of slouch because they’re trying to hide. Obviously, you can’t suck it in, but it’s important to really show off the belly. For some reason, for me, from the side it looks the biggest, so that’s what I tried to do.”

She said she didn’t color her hair during the first trimester, and took extra precautions when she finally got a few highlights. “My color grew out naturally and eventually looked sort of ombre. Once I got into my second trimester, I asked my stylist about a few small highlights around the face, just to break up the color a bit. We used organic dye, and to make sure I didn’t inhale anything, we even did it outside,” she said.

Next up: Pregnant Kristen Bell spotted on set!

Photo courtesy of Celebrity Baby Scoop Celebrity Mom and Baby News

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Pregnant Kristen Bell

Kristen Bell

Pregnant Kristen Bell bundled up her baby bump in a black jacket and black dress paired with black tights on the set of show House of Lies in Los Angeles. The actress is expecting her first child with her boyfriend Dax Shepard.

Speaking of Dax, she tweeted this quote that he said describing her... who is probably in the dog house as we speak. “You know who you look like? Humpty dumpty. You're shaped like an egg.“

Also on her Twitter timeline? “Obama won the election and I am getting fatter by the day. America has never been luckier,” she tweeted.

Next up: A posh and pregnant Malin Akerman

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Pregnant Malin Akerman

Malin Akerman

Hot mama-to-be! Pregnant actress Malin Akerman dressed her baby bump in black leggings paired with a sexy black top with a plunging neckline at the Hollywood Foreign Press Associations’ and InStyle’s Golden Globes party.

The Rock of Ages star, 34, is five months along with her first child with husband Roberto Zincone.

Akerman said that the baby was “kind of planned” and that they “got lucky” that it didn’t take them long.

“We took the goalie out of the net and said, ‘Let’s see what happens.‘ Because you never know how long it’s going to take,“ she said.

From Shakira to Lisa Ling, check out more pregnant celebrities here>>

Photos courtesy of WENN unless otherwise noted

Chasing the Dream: Holiday vacation for mom bloggers

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There are so many positives of blogging, but with them comes a few negatives — including the challenge of taking time away. With the holidays here, now's an ideal time to plan some time away. But how?

How to give yourself time off

There are so many positives of blogging, but with them comes a few negatives — including the challenge of taking time away.

With the holidays here, now's an ideal time to plan some time away. But how?

A few months before my daughter turned 1, I left my full-time job to freelance full time. It was 2008, and I could no longer afford the cost of gas to commute to my beloved publishing job — along with the cost of daycare for two kids and myriad other bills. My freelancing income grew steadily. By the time the holidays rolled around, a friend and I had launched a new site that was booming, I had multiple deadlines every day... it was crazy.

I don't remember much from the holiday season that year except for intense stress. Just thinking about it makes the muscles in my shoulders tense up. That year, I learned the immense importance of building holiday time and a break from work into my busy freelancing schedule.

You can too. And you should.

Can it really work?

"As a work-at-home mom and blogger, I not only need to take time off to care for my daughter while she's on holiday vacation, but I need time to relax and unwind myself," says Holly Reisem Hanna, founder and publisher of The Work at Home Woman.

Hanna plans weeks in advance for her time away. "I send out a call for guest bloggers and start filling in my editorial calendar with guest blog posts. WordPress allows me to schedule my blog posts in advance, and third-party applications like Hootsuite, allow me to schedule updates and automatically run my RSS feed to the various social networks," says Hanna. "By putting my blog on auto-drive during the holidays, I'm able to enjoy some quality time with my family as well as some much needed rest and relaxation."

It matters

New mom Mridu Khullar Relph has always taken time away from blogging when she needed it, but this holiday it's more important than ever to her. "I feel the need to go on my son's first holiday without being constantly at technology's beck and call. So I'm putting in the effort now to make sure I can have a fun, relaxing holiday without worrying about losing readers, not updating, etc., while I'm gone," says Relph.

She's working ahead to make the time away seamless. "My plan is to write up a few posts in advance and schedule them to automatically publish while I'm away. ," says Relph.

Make it work for you

Guest bloggers

Keeping the new content coming can be as easy as getting a little help. Draw on your social networks and other resources to bring in quality guest bloggers to contribute to your site while you are away.

Write ahead

If it's not too much to fit in, you can also prepare some posts ahead. As you have time, write and format a few extra posts that you can schedule during your time away. Choose evergreen topics or just keep them simple.

Leverage

Use what you have! Your site is already filled with great content, so take advantage during the holidays by promoting favorite old posts to run again or creating top 10 lists of your favorite posts, recipes, etc. of the year.

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Why Baby's first Christmas is overrated

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The first ornament, the first picture with Santa, the first holiday outfit... your first panic attack? Don’t put so much pressure on yourself! A year from now, you’ll be rolling your eyes wishing you knew then what you know now about what really matters about Baby’s first Christmas.

Don't put so much pressure on yourself

The first ornament, the first picture with Santa, the first holiday outfit... your first panic attack?

A year from now, you’ll be rolling your eyes wishing you knew then what you know now about what really matters about Baby’s first Christmas.

Save yourself your first panic attack

When you have a baby, it's all about the firsts. The first time she rolls over, the first steps, the first time she experiences a holiday like Christmas. But trying to make every single milestone perfect for your baby can create more stress than happiness and give you nothing short of your first panic attack. So do yourself a favor and experience a first of your own — the first time you let go of your need to make your baby's first year perfect.

"Baby's first Christmas can feel like yet another opportunity to 'get it wrong' as a mom. It's such a common thing. Everyone wants to have a perfect family, which means having a perfect Christmas," says Nanny M., author of the Nanny App, designed to give mothers expert parenting advice on the go. "What matters most is that you are a relaxed and happy mom," she adds.

5 Tips for Baby's first Halloween: Fun, not frightful>>

Who is this first Christmas really for?

"I remember one Los Angeles mom who covered her entire house in fake snow so she could take baby pictures for Christmas cards. By the time Christmas actually arrived, the whole thing looked such a mess she had to check into a hotel for the holidays," says Nanny M. "My best advice is this: "Remember, Baby won't remember."

What's really important?

Do you need the Normal Rockwell worthy Santa photo op? Is it an absolute must that you take Baby to open gifts at every relative's house? Will you flip out if you don't record your newborn the first time she hears Christmas carols? Maybe it's time to narrow down your list before you check it twice. Robert Nickell, founder of DaddyScrubs.com suggests these tips for deciding what's really important when prepping for your baby's first Christmas:

  1. Keep it simple and don't sweat the small stuff."If Baby is picky about clothing don't force her into a $200 lace dress with tights when a red or green onesie can be just as festive and much more comfortable."
  2. Be smart."Go see Santa for a picture on a Monday morning when the mall is least crowded and you most likely won't have to stand in a long line, if at all."
  3. Plan ahead. If your list is a mile long of the things you want to do and see with the baby, start early. Go see Santa one week and the holiday lights the next."

Read more about your baby's milestones

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Healthy milestones for infants and preschoolers
Making memories: Chronicling your baby's growth

Handmade holiday gifts kids can make

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There is nothing more special than a handmade gift at Christmas time. It is even better when the gift is handmade by a child. Help your child get into the spirit of giving at Christmas time with these four simple gifts that kids can make.

Puzzle piece wreath picture frame

What you'll need:

  • a small round picture frame
  • puzzle pieces
  • green craft paint
  • paint brush
  • glue
  • red pom poms
  • red ribbon

What you'll do:

  1. Lay your puzzle pieces out on a protected surface, and paint one side of each puzzle piece green. Allow the puzzle pieces to dry.
  2. Start gluing the puzzle pieces around the frame. Glue a single layer and allow that layer to dry completely before adding more layers. Keep adding more puzzle pieces until the frame is completely covered.
  3. Glue red pom poms around the frame, then tie a bow with red ribbon and glue it to the top of the frame.

Color your own plate

What you'll need:

  • clear glass plate
  • card stock
  • printer
  • colored pencils, crayons or markers
  • Mod Podge
  • sponge paint brush

What you'll do:

  1. Head over to the SheKnows Activity Center and print a Christmas coloring page on some card stock.
  2. Have your child color the coloring page with colored pencils, crayons or markers. Cut the page down so that it is the same size as the bottom of your plate.
  3. Paint a layer of Mod Podge on the underside of the plate. Place your child's drawing into the layer of Mod Podge, so that the design can be seen through the plate, then allow it to dry.
  4. Coat the back side of the card stock completely with Mod Podge. Allow it to dry completely, then add a second coat to seal.

Marble painted bookmark

What you'll need:

  • card stock
  • red, green and yellow paint
  • a marble
  • a shoebox
  • decorative scissors
  • a hole punch
  • red and green ribbon

What you'll do:

  1. Lay the card stock in the bottom of the shoe box. Trim it down if it does not fit.
  2. Dip your marble in the red paint, then drop it into the shoe box. Roll the marble back and forth around the box so that it leaves a trail of paint across the card stock. Dip the marble in the paint a second time, and keep rolling until you are happy with the design.
  3. Allow the paint to dry, then repeat the process with the green and yellow paint. Let the paint dry each time you change colors.
  4. Once the paint has completely dried, use your decorative scissors to cut out a piece of the card stock that is 1-1/2 inches wide and 6 inches tall.
  5. Punch a hole toward the top of the bookmark with your hole punch.
  6. Cut two pieces of red ribbon and two pieces of green ribbon that are each 4 inches long.
  7. Fold the ribbons in half and thread the folded end through the hole in the bookmark. Feed the tail ends of the ribbon through the loop and pull the ribbons tight.

Hand-drawn tile coasters

What you'll need:

  • white ceramic tiles
  • permanent markers
  • an oven

What you'll do:

  1. Have your child draw a picture on each of the white tiles using the permanent markers.
  2. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F, and bake the tiles in the oven for 20 minutes to set the design.
  3. Allow the tiles to cool completely before handling.

More great holiday crafts

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Teach your child about other religions

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With so many different religions, and the expansion of secularism in school systems, how do parents successfully teach their children their own and other religious convictions? The answer isn't a simple one — it requires time, perseverance, and more than anything else, being/living the example.

They say if a parent doesn't teach his child, someone else will. Wouldn't you rather, even at the risk of indoctrination, teach your child your own and other religious convictions than have them learn different ones by someone else? Eventually we all reach an age when we are accountable for our own beliefs, but teaching your child basic religious principles from infancy is a wonderful way to get a head start.

Having your children grow up with faith is something too important to ignore. A life without faith could be detrimental to their development. According to an extensive survey by The Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life almost one in four Americans today is unaffiliated with any particular religion.

It's important to reconnect — or connect at all — with a sense of faith.

According to the article, Teaching Spirituality to Kids on Parenting.com "children who develop a sense of a loving God, higher power or a guiding force are 80 percent less likely to suffer major depression and 50 percent less likely to suffer from substance abuse as teens." It's obvious that a belief and faith in such changes the outcome of a person's life.

We talked to Scott W. Ventrella, author of Me Inc.: How to Master the Business of Being You, and radio show host. Ventrella's nationally syndicated radio show, "The Business of Living" focuses on managing the most important aspects of life, including religion and spirituality. He provided the following guidelines for parents looking for ways to introduce religion to their children:

  • All religions contain certain rituals, traditions, practices and beliefs that are mostly unique to a particular faith system. Be sure your child understands what these are. This can be accomplished through formal religious education or simply visit different places of worship and speak to spiritual leaders.
  • Follow your particular religion's practices.
  • Act consistently with your belief system; don't become a "do as I say, not as I do" parent.
  • Share your own faith journey.
  • Teach your child about other faith systems and the importance of respecting other religions.
  • Help your child understand the importance of practicing their faith 24/7/365; not just on occasion.
  • Show your child that in addition to formal religion, they can find God anywhere, not only just in a congregation, church or synagogue. In everyday life, they need to feel that they are never alone, that faith is also experienced outside of a building, in nature, in other people, in reflection, gratitude and prayer.
  • Designate time for quiet reflection, gratitude and prayer; together as a family.
  • Take time to answer any questions your children might have and avoid being judgmental if they don't understand or completely agree with you. Keep this up beginning in the early years right up through adolescence. At a certain point a child will make up her own mind about God, faith, religion, etc. Once she's arrived at this point, respect whatever decision she might have made. As parents, we have to learn to let go, taking comfort in the fact that we've done all we could in providing the proper foundation.

Even though we love Ventrella's advice, we believe the very best way to teach our children about religion is by following our own personal faith, acting as a positive role model and celebrating life by being tolerant.

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